
Phyllis Ann Shaw Padgett, 73, was the fourth of five children born to Olive Ruth and Joe Shaw. A lifelong resident of Indianapolis, IN she was a proud Hoosier mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother. She retired as the church secretary of Arlington Heights Baptist Church in September of 2005 where she had worked for almost 5 years having started in January 2001. Prior to that, she had also worked as a unit secretary at Indiana University Hospital for 3 years and as a special education bus driver for MSD Warren Township for 18 years, retiring in 1986.
Phyllis led an active life and could always be found cheering on her grandchildren at numerous sporting and other school events. She was a communion minister for Holy Spirit Catholic Church and a member of the Faith Formation Committee at Holy Spirit. She also was a communion minister for Community East Hospital until earlier this year.
Phyllis loved music with a passion, and was an accomplished musician in her younger days. As a student in middle school, the music teacher at Washington High School would invite Phyllis to perform with the high school band and orchestras when she needed an extra saxophonist or clarinetist. In high school at Washington, she was honored with a letter all four years where she was First Chair Clarinet and First Chair Violin in the orchestra.
She then went on to study at Indiana Central University where she was an Elementary Education student with an eye towards teaching, but her studies were cut short before she left class to work to support her family. Her dedication to her family is what defined her life and she was a devoted wife to Thomas Gilbert Padgett for almost 30 years from July 1954 until Tom’s sudden death May 12, 1984 from a heart attack.
Her brothers Joe, Art, and Dave Shaw; her sons Tom, Kevin, Mike, and Joh Padgett and her daughter Lydia Ragsdale, 13 grand- and 5 great-grandchildren survive her. Her arrangements are being handled by Feeney-Hornak Shadeland Mortuary (map), and she will be entombed in a mausoleum at Washington Park East Cemetery (map) next to her husband Tom.
Please leave your messages in the comments section of this thread, or you can also leave a voice message for us at my home number at (317) 353-2550. Floral arrangements can be delivered to Feeney-Hornak Shadeland Mortuary (see link above). Details of her arrangements will be posted later today.
September 16, 2006 at 2:23 am
I’m so sorry for your loss. Phyllis sounds like an incredible woman and I’m sorry I’ll never have the chance to meet her. Share her memory with each other, and when you find the time, with us.
My most heartfelt condolences to you and your whole family Joh.
September 16, 2006 at 2:25 am
[...] Phyllis Ann Padgett, Joh Padgett aka Fini Finito’s mother, died tonight. Joh is a great friend of Emboldened and a key organizer for the Roots Project and the SRP Newsweekly podcast. From everything I have heard, Phyllis was an amazing woman who raised an incredible family. Her obituary can be read here. [...]
September 16, 2006 at 2:40 am
My soul brother.
Well, you know.
I remember the first night I met you, and we talked of pistachio lust, and your mother.
Was a long time ago, and we still have many miles to walk together.
Whatever path you take, you know I am beside you.
Gonna go listen to some Barry now.
Remember, anything for you, always.
Holly
September 16, 2006 at 2:55 am
hello fini; I am a fried on holly’s. I know i dont know you , but i do understand your loss. I lost my mother as well. Just remember she lived long enough to see you blossom before her eyes;I think thats really all any parent ever wishes for….Peace be unto you brother.
September 16, 2006 at 2:56 am
I’m so sorry to hear what happened. Please accept my condolences on your loss. I know you’ve been having a rough time, but I know you will see through this. Please come back to us, we miss you. I miss you.
We are always here for you. If you need anything, just let me know.
– Junior
September 16, 2006 at 7:33 am
Fini,
First off Fini I am Holly’s friend, second of all I would like too offer my condolences. Its always hard when you loose someone you love. Holly have told me a lot about you and what you are going through, and I like too say from what she’s told me, that you are a beautiful Individual……
-Thomas-
September 16, 2006 at 8:34 am
Dear Fini,
I am deeply sorry to hear this news i know I how close you two were I could feel it when you spoke of her. She is a beutiful spirit and always will be forever in the hearts of those she loves. love will manifest on for those she nutured will love on in her memory. It is through that love you will always be connected for all days everyday I find my self reflecting on the loss of my mother but this is not about me now. The grief you must feel. I hope you find the connection within you and her spirit so you can live on with her resonating love deep within your soul. It will always be thier it is not goodbye it is until next time.
Finni I love you like a brother. May all of your steps be blessed. P.S. I hope to see you again please do not be a stranger.
Rolando
September 16, 2006 at 10:21 am
Blessings go out to your mother and your whole family, Joh. It’s the measure of a good life that when it comes time to pass on the ones you love are by your side. But to have a tribute shared with the world on the web means your mom was dearly loved.
September 16, 2006 at 1:05 pm
Phyllis is a VERY special woman because she was truly a great friend to me in a time of need and was always very unselfish even with her time. She played a very important role though very quietly helping Joh and I with activities of our charity work with Olive Branch Society and I will always be grateful for her appreciation and contributions. She always offered food when I came to visit and even when I had a full stomach I still had to sample something. Phyllis was like having a second mother and that is one of the greatest gifts any friend can give! I have said this to her in person when she was here in the physical flesh, but now I will say it to everyone.. thank you for everything and I appreciate you! If you are reading this I hope you share special things with all of your loved ones every day!
She is happy where she is..we call it heaven. She is smiling and she wants us to do the same I am sure! SO DO IT!
Dan Niswander
September 16, 2006 at 1:45 pm
I am sorry for your loss, but you should be comforted in knowing that she lived a full life and had the joy of seeing her children and grandchildren and great grandchildren grow to mature and productive members of society. In hebrew we would say she merited to reap “nachas” from her kids.. and there is nothing better she could have asked for.
Rafi
September 17, 2006 at 1:53 pm
May the pain of this loss be diminished by the loving and joyful memories Phyllis left behind as soon as may be.
September 19, 2006 at 11:26 pm
Yo Fin, I send my deepest sympathies. I too have recently suffered a great loss in my life. I expected it but all the same, there was always that single ray of hope that your loved one would hang on a little longer.
I normally would have more to say in a situation like this, but I don’t want to overdo myself.
Send my regards to the rest of the family
Much love,
Heysoos
September 20, 2006 at 3:31 am
Hey Fini… sorry to hear about ya mom bro. How you holding up man?
September 20, 2006 at 5:47 pm
My thoughts are with you during this very hard time for you. Phyllis was a wonderful person and very fun to be with. She will be missed in the hearts of everyone who knew her and the world is just a little less bright. Take care of yourself…you are needed too!
So sorry,
Sue
September 27, 2006 at 3:13 am
I’m so sorry Fini. I know that this has to be unbelievable right now, but you have a lot of people on here who love you and want you to stay strong so hang in there.
~ Polly
September 27, 2006 at 3:15 pm
Yes, waiter, I would like a crusty loaf of placation to dip in my steaming cup o’ pain au jus.
Oh, yeah, and some Apples and Sunshine for dessert!
My, the plants are certainly beautiful in this restaurant. They compliment the guilt assuaging floral arrangements quite nicely.
May I have another glass of misery, please?
What’s that? It’s happy hour,you say?
Drinks on me!
Misery for everyone!
Wooooooo!
October 12, 2006 at 12:21 am
Joh
I’ve spent the last 10 years looking for you. I about lost it when I saw the picture of this great woman. I am so sorry. She always made me feel so welcome at your house. Your whole family did. And… she put up with our shit. My prayers to you and your family.
Steve
C’ville Zen Posse